6 musts
He must be honest
He must be genuine
He must be smart
He must want to get married
He must know the general direction he is going in life

10 very important
It is very important that he be sensitive
It is very important that he can hold his own in social settings
It is very important that he be able to manifest his feelings for me
It is very important that he has his own hobbies/life
It is very important that he want children
It is very important that he want to go to church with me
It is very important that he wants to have dogs
It is very important that he be emotionally healthy
It is very important that he be very much in love with me and we have all the fun
It is very important that he gets along with and is approved by my friends/family

6 must nots
He must not smell bad to me
He must not embarrass me
He must not be a loser
He must not be mean to anyone
He must not be a pushover
He must not have someone in his life I can’t stand (not just annoyed with, but truly think they are awful)

Unlimited what ifs
Architect
Likes art/design
Builds me a pre-fab house
Could dance decently
Does something nice for me every Valentine’s Day
Is J Timberlake
Has a bachelor’s degree or higher
Likes to read interesting books

5 scenarios where you like to picture the two of you
In France
Having coffee on a dock at some nice lake
Having hot chocolate on a skiing mini break
At a big gala event and we look great and everyone loves us
Cuddled on the couch under a blanket