opine

can i ask everyone their opinion?

there are inevitable things in life.

life/death are the obvious ones that will surely happen
the probable ones are that you will buy a house/buy a new car/get married
then there are the lame ones of have dinner/buy a new pair of jeans/etc.

is it a BAD thing to look forwad to these events?
you know they are VERY PROBABLY going to happen
why can't we anticipate these things?

people always tell you, don't worry about it, it'll happen in time,
it'll happen in its own way, etc.
i guess you can't induce these things, but is it wrong to ponder?
i guess they don't want you to dwell on it BUT HOW CAN YOU NOT DWELL
ON IT IF YOU KNOW WITH SUBSTANTIAL CERTAINTY THAT THEY ARE GOING TO
HAPPEN??

let me know