crazy people

today i talked to esther about my blog about seeing the ex. we both agreed it is odd to see these people because it is like they don't exist anymore after they are out of your lives, a sort of phantom of your past. but amazingly they continue to live their own day to day lives and nothing has changed except that you don't come into contact with them anymore. like how i saw jane at jcrew the other day. now i cant go into the brea jcrew anymore. but there she is, still living in the area and now working at jcrew. then i go to thinking in the car, those people you no longer see is because you have chosen to disassociate them from your lives. but you still know where they live and where they work and where they hang out. it is not hard to see them if you want to. then i realized it is the crazy people that still use the fact that they used to know a person to still contact them. once you broke up/arent friends anymore/hate them...you stop and pretend you never knew them. but crazy people like the bf CALL to bother you. crazy people are the ones who have to get restraining orders because they simply cannot function in the civil world with social norms. we once knew each other, yes. but now that i hate you and choose to disassociate myself, you cannot call or stop by or anything. simple concept for those who are sane. not so simple for those who are crazy.